Establishing a Relationship with Your Dog
From day one, talk to your puppy or dog. It will make your pet alert and responsive to you. Offer treats for rewards, but don’t let him snatch it out of your hand. Handle your dog a lot. For example, gently massage his ears, run your hand down each leg, pick up each paw and softly touch his toenails as you give him a treat, all the while talking happily to him.
Monitor your puppy’s activities in the house and the yard. Unwatched puppies can get into LOTS of trouble. Also remember to provide lots of exercise. A tired puppy is a good puppy. Be sure not to scold or punish, as this will only make him more afraid and more likely to turn this into a contest of wills. Puppies are like young children and need to know who’s in charge, what their limits are, and what’s expected of them.
Socialize your dog or puppy. This is the most important thing you can do to help him to have a great life. If you don’t do this, he can develop behavior problems like aggression or shyness. As long as your pup has had all his shots (at 4 months of age or older) you can take him to the park, the store, and to visit your friends. Get him out and about and he’ll feel like part of the family.
If he doesn’t like the car, start by just sitting in the car with him. Once he's comfortable being in the car, start taking him on short trips and work your way up to longer ones. If he gets carsick don’t feed him before going in the car.
When you introduce him to a new place or person, if he’s afraid at first, let him take his time to get used to things. Don’t force or rush him. Use treats to reward him for approaching new people or situations. Even when he gets older, don’t ever stop socializing your dog. It will make him happier and more confident.
Remember, things you don’t want to happen in 6 months shouldn’t be allowed to happen now (like getting on the furniture or jumping up on people). It is easier to make habits than to break them.